The other day while I surfed the net, I stumbled across one of the expert relationship advice articles that stated not to marry the good-looking guy, because he will cheat on you.
This was in response to one of the latest political cheating scandals. What really grinds my God-given-gears about this kind of stereotypical advice is, that it looks for stereotypical solutions to avoid pain/failure/disappointment etc. If you choose to listen to advice like that you might have to tell your soul mate, "Honey I am sorry, but I can't be with you this life because you are just too handsome, could you come in a more ugly package next time?"
My approach, as always, is discernment. Are there good-looking guys out there that will cheat on you? Yes, of course. But you could also find plenty of less attractive guys that will cheat and there are also many people male and female of all shapes and sizes that wouldn't betray you. Which brings me back to karma and spiritual contracts. If you were the playboy/girl in a past life maybe you'll attract people that will be unfaithful to you, teaching your cheating self to be more honorable in the future.
A lot of times people stay in relationships that have already died and the third party becomes the catalyst to move on.
As you can see there are many ways of how to examine relationships, please do yourself the favor and take responsibility for your karma, take an honest look at whom you have in front of you, beyond their external package a.k.a. looks, and have the courage to follow your heart. Love a lot, knowing the person might leave you, or die. If the love is genuine you can't lose, for we always gain by allowing ourselves to have an open heart.
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